There are few things more frustrating than dealing with a dispute with your neighbor. Having a friendly, or at the very least, civil relationship with your neighbors is important for maintaining a peaceful life in Encinitas. But sometimes, disputes arise that threaten to disturb the peace. Before letting the situation escalate into a war that would make the Starks and the Lannisters nervous, try to resolve the situation in a civilized manner.
There are several things that can cause trouble between neighbors. Noise complaints, children’s behavior, and boundary disputes seem to be the most common, but even something as trivial as an ill-kept yard could be enough to start trouble. But how do you prevent an annoyance from becoming a full-on blood feud?
The easiest and most effective way to handle a dispute is to speak to the neighbor personally. Chances are, he may not even realize there’s a problem in the first place! Approach your neighbor, and in a non-confrontational tone let them know about the problem you’re experiencing. There’s a good chance that if you approach the situation in a respectful and mature way, your neighbor will understand. Voicing your concern can help settle most disputes permanently.
However, if your neighbor reacts negatively, or the offending behavior persists, you may have to consider other options. For example, if your neighbor constantly disturbs your evenings with loud music or a home theater system that can be heard from orbit, send them a written complaint with a copy of the town’s noise ordinance. Make sure you make a copy for yourself, so if you need to involve the police you can show them evidence of your complaint.
If you observe your neighbor doing something illegal or dangerous, confronting them about the situation is probably not a good idea. If possible, document this behavior with video or photographs, and notify the proper authorities.
Boundary disputes can be a bit trickier to settle. If your property line is being invaded by your neighbor’s fence or personal property, the first thing you should do is make copies of any documents that clearly define where your property ends, and theirs begins. Inform your neighbor of the problem, and ask to meet with them to discuss how to resolve the issue. Make sure to keep copies of everything you send with this letter. You may also be able to record the documents with the county clerk, if you think the dispute can’t be settled civilly.
If you are lucky, this should be enough to settle a property dispute. However, if your neighbor is uncooperative, you may have to take them to court in order to settle the matter.
The most important thing to keep in mind when dealing with a dispute with a neighbor is to remain respectful and civil. Everyone wants their home to be a peaceful sanctuary, and free from hostility. Don’t lose your temper, even if your neighbor responds negatively. Letting cooler heads prevail, and the proper legal channels if all else fails, will help your home in Encinitas remain peaceful.